Here's to the booty call

There is something really damn sexy about sleeping up. I'm not talking about standing up, I'm talking about getting down and dirty with someone entirely out of your league. Part of it is the thrill of the chase, part of it is the knowledge that something about you this person finds attractive. A hell of a lot of it is that it helps a girl feel damn good about herself.

I am lucky enough to have someone "out of my league" that I've got a semi-regular thing with. And by semi-regular, I mean we get together probably once every 18 months. Little things like international travel, girlfriends, boyfriends, or 350-mile driving distances tend to get in our way. Every time we see each other, I have to remind myself that he is, in fact, there to see ME- and do the kind of nasty things that one usually only sees in videos brought home in black plastic bags.

Usually I'm not a fan of the idea of "leagues" but I openly admit they exist. It's a part of our lizard brains that we unconsciously still pay attention to. Physically, socially, this guy is everything that shouldn't be attracted to me. While he's not THE BEST I've ever had in bed (although he is the second largest), he is DAMN good, and usually even considerate. He's the type always willing to try new things, never has a problem with a long extended kiss, tells me what he likes (guys, take note, this is something most of you suck at), and makes sure I am enjoying myself just as much if not more. He talks dirty in bed and holds decent before and after conversation.

And, to top it off, when he spends the night, *he* actually insists that there is cuddling. Of course there are things about him that I don't like - but who cares?

There is a definite benefit to the kind of booty call you can call up and say "I need a weekend of getting laid, I have a hotel room in your city, when will you be over?" and their reaction is "give me an hour to shower and I will see you and your gorgeous body soon".

Sometimes a girl has to treat herself. You will most likely hear more about ST in the future, and more specific stories (exhibitionism, bondage, torture, and one of the greatest O's I've ever had, just to start) - but here's to the close-to-ideal booty call.