Glossary: Munch and Snowball

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Munch
This term can be used in many different situations, with many different definitions. However, as I usually use it and as most kinksters use it, it means a BDSM and/or kink and/or swingers meetup. These are NOT Play Parties, where comparatively dirty stuff happens, but rather a casual lunch meetup of some kind. They are usually held in public places (although a semi-private area or back room), and fetish wear is usually discouraged. Going to just see what it's all about is encouraged- it's the non-threatening, non-scary way to meet people into something other than "vanilla."
I've yet to see a place that doesn't have a munch of some kind within an hour's drive, and most of the time they seem to be held on a regular basis - once a month or two.

Snowball
A "snowball" is a move during oral sex - sometimes people are into these, sometimes not. It's best to check first with your partner before doing it.
The nuts and bolts of this move: when your male partner is about to orgasm, make sure a large portion of the ejaculate gets into your mouth. Do NOT swallow or spit. Kiss your partner, full-on-the-mouth French, and pass the ejaculate into their mouth.
Like I said, some are into this, some are not. So check first!