I was discussing this particular question with TheSlut and TBFLV. It seems that there are very few people that do not have a strong opinion one way or the other on this issue. You're either a spit person or a swallow person.
I can see the issue from both sides, honestly. I know more than one person who must spit. If they don't, they throw up. Now, perhaps there is a deeper physical reason for this- the way their tastebuds react, texture, maybe even the salt content of a guy's cum. No matter why, it is better for them to find a convenient sink, car window, empty drinking glass, or tossed-aside piece of clothing to spit into. While I've never had this problem, I can see how some might. What angers me are the male partners that get angry about this. It isn't anything personal. If someone was willing to have you ejaculate is his/her/their general direction, there's a pretty damn good chance it's not a personal issue. They just don't want to throw it all up over you. So let the poor boy/girl/person spit already. Even rinse their mouth if they need to.
On the other side are the swallowers. I am one of these people. Of course, assuming that the person I am with is getting a blowjob without a condom (which means I trust pretty well that they are disease-free), then I rather enjoy the taste of success. Not to mention that cleanup is usually much simpler for a swallower. However, all those swallowers out there that immediately expect your partner to be ok with a full-on French kiss after you've taken a nice swig of their cum - check with them first. Not everyone enjoys even a small snowball. If you're the partner of a swallower, especially if you asked them to, then please don't treat your partner as if they just did something disgusting. Requesting they at least rinse is fine, but don't demand they get up and do it RIGHT THEN. They probably put in some significant work - so let them relax for a few minutes. Or better yet, return the favor.
The point is, no matter if you spit or swallow, it should be enjoyed on both sides, and it's not a preference easily changed. If you're one of the few who does/can cross both sides of this, leave a comment, I'd love to hear why you stand where you do and which you prefer.
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I prefer to spit but that's just because I don't like it. I will swallow if the mood strikes me or if I don't feel like making a run for the sink. I hate though when the boy is at all antsy about feeling like he's getting snowballed. Esp if the boy wants you to kiss him after he eats you out. No double standards buddy.
In my not so humble opinion, anyguy who complains about a person not swallowing, needs to take a water pistol full of warm snot and shoot it down his throat. Then come talk me to me about it.
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